This will be the 30th Father's Day without my father. And, on top of it, a good friend would have celebrated her 64th birthday today. In some ways, this has been a hard day for me (including a problem I have with swallowing certain food cropping up - no pun intended - and I am not feeling my best. ) But, as they say, consider the alternative.
So, I will let part of a post from Memorial Day, 2015 do the heavy lifting today. The amazing thing about what I did on Ancestry.com that day in 2015 led a long-lost cousin in his mid 80's to find me (actually, his daughter). He had been looking for me for years.
Amazing things can happen online.
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Today (May 25, 2015), the genealogy website Ancestry.com has free access and you can look up military records for anyone in their database.
I looked up my grandfather on my mother's side and found (definitely) his World War II draft registration and (possibly) his World War I draft registration. For the first time in my memory, I saw his signature on the World War II document. More intriguing, I found his town of birth - something I never knew - but it doesn't seem to exist -"Altsandas, Austria" - another mystery for a later date. (I am not sure what country it is in today, but it was Austria-Hungary when he came to this country around 1903).
I then looked up my father's World War Two enlistment record and found this. After the war he worked for several years on Governor's Island, part of New York City, where his enlistment took place. What I know of his enlistment is that he was already considered disabled (a childhood illness destroyed his hearing in one ear) and had tried to enlist without success. But, by 1942, we needed anyone who could serve.
|State of Residence:||New York|
|County or City:||Kings[Brooklyn]|
|Enlistment Date:||6 Aug 1942|
|Enlistment State:||New York|
|Enlistment City:||Fort Jay Governors Island|
|Term of Enlistment:||Enlistment for the duration of the War or other emergency, plus six months, subject to the discretion of the President or otherwise according to law|
|Component:||Selectees (Enlisted Men)|
|Education:||2 years of high school|
|Civil Occupation:||Semiskilled occupations in manufacture of miscellaneous electrical equipment, n.e.c.|
|Marital Status:||Single, with dependents|
More memories. Why would my father have been single, with dependents? Because he helped to raise his youngest brother after his mother died. Just as he raised me after my mother died.
These documents may not show much, but they can still tell a story. You just need to be creative to read and understand the story.
Dad, I want you to know I miss you today, and my friend, too. It was a beautiful day here in upstate New York. I wish I could have shared it with both of you.