In June of 2012, I wrote the below post during an "Author Blog Challenge". Since then, the neighbor who gave me this Kalanchoe has passed on to where we all, eventually, will end up. But, the kalanchoe is still alive, thanks to cuttings I've taken several times.
Here's the post, with an update. Interesting that I chose "hope" as a word for 2022, 10 years later. Could I have imagined what we all have face these last two years?
"What is the single best
piece of advice you've ever received about the publishing process and/or
what advice would you offer to a first-time author?"
That single piece of advice I learned from this challenge was "never give up hope."
Hope of what? Hope of achieving your goals. Sometimes, just not giving
up hope of survival. I knew, before the Challenge, that becoming a
published author was hard. Now I have a better idea of just how hard
and grueling it can be. In the midst of the struggle, a beginning
author must believe in him or herself, and never give up hope that it
will get better, that the goals will be achieved, that the hard work
will pay off.
Then, there is the story of the kalanchoe.
I had a neighbor who was seriously ill. Well, more than serious. From the start, he knew the prognosis was grim.
Sometimes, he sat outside in the sunshine,
enjoying the small garden he and his wife planted next to their
rental house. I know (because he told me) he enjoyed the view of my front yard, with the
flowers, the sometimes untidy herb bed, and my "flood angel".
Some months ago, before he was diagnosed with this illness, he was in
the hospital for another reason. Someone gave him a kalanchoe as a
get-well gift.
A kalanchoe, for the uninitiated, is a succulent plant
with small blooms, which come in a variety of colors. They can be quite
pretty.
Ah, those hospital gift plants. You get them from people who know that
flowers may not be the ideal gift. Flowers die after a few days, and if
your recipient is allergic, those flowers are the gift that brings
misery. Now, a flowering plant, that's slightly different. There's a
hope of keeping the plant alive after it finishes blooming. A foliage
plant? Even better.
My neighbor, after a period of enjoying the kalanchoe,
offered it to me. I hesitated for a minute before accepting the
plant. I take flowering plants seriously. Any flowering
plant I receive will get the best care I know how to give. I can't bear
to have one die on me, although I have killed enough in my time.
I hesitated because a few years ago, I got a kalanchoe as a gift. I
kept it alive on my windowsill for a couple of years. It never
rebloomed and eventually it succumbed to white flies.
I kept the one from my neighbor alive all winter on my living room table. Come late
spring, it went outside, where I figured it would have a better chance
of escaping white flies. It rebloomed.
It's rebloomed several times since, but not in the past few years, including the COVID years.
Until I noticed blooms on it late in the fall of 2021.
And now.....
Taken on New Years Day.
Hope.
Beautiful story and beautiful plant.
ReplyDeleteIt's beautiful and, I hope, a symbol of what's to come for all of us.
ReplyDelete...I've never been successful with them.
ReplyDeleteHope NEVER dies! This is lovely! I just realized that I was given a kalanchoe for Christmas. (Or rather Mrs. Santa was and I'm the happy eventual recipient!) I'm even more excited about it now!
ReplyDeletePerhaps the kalanchoe already knows something about 2022. Happy New Year.
ReplyDeleteWas just at the dentist and they have a lovely plant.
ReplyDeleteYay, it bloomed again. Perhaps that's an omen for things to come.
ReplyDeleteNature gave you a little gift of the re-bloom. Lovely
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