Tuesday, September 6, 2022

My Hummingbird Friend

I'm going to miss her, the female ruby-throated hummingbird whose territory I live in.

These past few months,she's permitted me to sit in the back yard, in the chair my back likes the best.  She won't use the sugar water feeder we've set up for her when I'm sitting in the yard, but she will work the nearby flowers.  And, she'll fly right into my face (well, maybe a couple of feet away) and chirp at me while hovering, her wings beating at some 50 times a second  (this is not a typo).

I've never tried to get her to feed from my hand.  Our late Wild Birds Unlimited store (it closed Tuesday with the owners retiring after over a year of trying to find a buyer) used to sell these little hummingbird hand feeders.  Her companionship was good enough.

When I heard the buzz of her wings, my breath always caught.

Right now, there are turtleheads (a wildflower that I bought from a wildflower grower in Asheville, North Carolina 10 years ago), a heuchera I let bloom, cuphea,    The cuphea is inches from me and she would feed right from the flowers.  If I dared to take her picture on the cuphea she would leave, insulted.

She's in the upper right - cuphea are the orange flowers
 

That's why I treasure the few pictures I have of her, blurry or not.

If you are unfamiliar with hummingbirds (and, living east of the Mississippi, ruby-throateds are the only ones I can identify firsthand), you'll know this friendship is temporary.  I knew it, though, coming in.

Blurry hummingbird - background tree is a pawpaw

I think she left us Sunday.  Bon voyage, if so.

In the last two weeks, we suddenly seemed to be seeing her a lot more than usual.  Besides visiting the flowers, she would take long, quenching sips of sugar water. And she seemed to be doing a lot of resting on a nearby clothesline, one I haven't used for drying clothes for years but kept up anyway.  

I knew what she is doing.  She was preparing for fall migration.  Unlike most of "our" (well, we just host them; they don't belong to us) feeder birds, who are year round residents (Northern cardinals, house finches, gold finches, chickadees, tufted titmice, white-breasted nuthatches, downy/hairy woodpeckers, blue jays, and red-bellied woodpeckers) and the mourning doves who feed on the seeds other birds shovel out of the feeders, the hummingbirds come here to summer and to breed.  And then, come the early part of September, they are on their way to Florida, Louisiana and, eventually, Mexico.

These little bundles of boundless energy have to gain up to 40% of their weight to enable this miraculous journey.

Now, it's early September.  She didn't come to the feeder or flowers Sunday, at least where we could see her.  Ditto for Monday.

Perhaps she is gone.  Just like that.  No goodbye.

We'll keep the feeder going another week or so, just in case any migrants from further north want to stop by.  Our flowers will also be there to welcome them. 

And, to my blogging friends in Texas I ask, take good care of my friend when she arrives. 

Looking to the future?

I know you will.


9 comments:

  1. ...my humminbird friends haven't been around lately. Enjoy yours while you can.

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  2. I rarely see them here, every now and then I catch a glimpse at my flower pot by the front door, but they don't let me get close. Glad you got a chance to really enjoy them while they were around.

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  3. We love the birds that share our space, but I never knew that much about humming birds. We have one that comes every year (at least that's what I tell myself). I tell my husband and grandkids that it is mom coming for a visit. She loved humming birds so much.

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  4. You got a few nice photos of her. I hope she has safe travels and returns to you next year.

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  5. I actually SAW a hummingbird here. Right outside my office window! I was way past excited! I can't imagine the joy of having them visit for an entire summer. Farwell until next year, little hummingbird! You will be missed.

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  6. I saw a doc on hummingbirds back in the spring. I was fascinated by the whole bit about the migration. I can't imagine how they can store up so much for that trip, but they have to do it. I can't remember what streaming service it was on, but it was very informative.

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  7. haven't seen a hummingbird for a while.
    Coffee is on and stay safe

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  8. How endearing is this. I bet you miss her so much. I love the line-up of visitors you have at home. What a treat it must be to watch them bustle around.

    I have a bunch of Mynahs that come by most of the time. Since it's grapes season, I have been getting them grapes to feed. When our Grape creeper fruits eat off them too. And we leave the entire harvest for the birds. Not that there is much, as we are on the 15th floor.
    We also get to see the Red Vented Bulbuls, that come in to feast on the fresh grapes. Otherwise I hardly see them. They would also come to peck at the worms from our Kitchen garden Composter.

    Else I get the usual pesky pigeons (quite the pest), ravens (crows) and sometimes the Roufous Treepie. We did have some sparrows visit us once, but not lately.
    It's a dream to host parakeets and other birds. But the pigeons are such a bully, they drive them all away.

    I hope your friend has a happy migration and visits some wonderful hosts like you. And is back with you next season.

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  9. Lovely story and pictures. This summer the jewelweed that bloomed first were really too close to the porch and path, so the bolder hummingbirds buzzed up close enough for me to get a good look--but no chance of taking a recognizable picture of one with my phone!

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