Tuesday, November 22, 2022

Fifty Nine Years Later

"Singer" was a canary.  I lived in a New York City housing project which prohibited dogs or cats.  My Mom had brought home various goldfish, but eventually they all went to the large aquarium in the sky.

One of my aunts, who lived a couple of miles from me, had three pets:  two cats and a canary.

Yes, a canary living in the same apartment as two cats.

It was a male and it sang so beautifully.  For me,watching it, it was instant love.  I've always been attracted to birds and started begging Mom for a canary of my own.

At some point, when I was about eight, Mom decided I was old enough to care for a pet, so off to the pet shop we went (at that time, the early 60's, canaries were not expensive the way they are now) and Mom and I came home with a yellow canary.

"Singer" became a friend and companion for me, an only child.  He would sing for me, do little tricks with his seed bell and swing, and entertain me in general with his antics during his weekly bath.  In fact, I was able (with a lot of patience) to train him to sit on my finger, and even to sit on my shoulder.  I have a picture, somewhere of me (in a bathrobe, as I recall), with "Singer" perched on me. 

His songs and company were just what I needed after I broke my leg in three places and had to spend the next two months at home because my elementary school classroom was on the 4th floor and there was no elevator in the school building.  (I was home educated by a teacher sent to my apartment until after my cast was removed.  I blogged about that several years ago. I owe a lot to that teacher, but that's a story for another day).

Sadly, Singer passed away during my recovery.  I remember the date, too, because it was the day before President John F. Kennedy was assassinated.  I was still in my leg cast. 

Yes, people of my generation remember the date November 22, 1963 well.  It was the day that President John F. Kennedy was in a motorcade in Dallas, Texas.  Shot several times, he died shortly after at a local hospital.  

Meanwhile, I was at home, reading or doing homework, perhaps.  My mother had left me to go shopping.  She returned home, and was crying as she opened the door to our Bronx apartment.

Mom turned on the TV, and the next three days were nonstop television coverage.  I had a doctor's appointment the following Monday to have the progress of my healing checked, and I remember watching some of the funeral coverage in the waiting room.

We went to the pet store the day after Kennedy died to buy another canary.  In the pet store cage was a yellow canary with a black spot on top of his head.  My Mom and I agreed the bird had the spot to mourn Kennedy, and that was the bird we took home with us.

It's been 59 years.  I still find that, in some ways, hard to believe.

7 comments:

  1. ...I will never forget when I learned of Kennedy's death!

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  2. I’m just a little too young to remember that day. My mother told me that I saw Jack Ruby kill Oswald, she and my father must have watched all the tv coverage.

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  3. I love the idea of a canary to bring joy, but a black spot to honor the loss.

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  4. I love your little Singer! How sad to lose him when you were still recuperating. Wise of your mother to take you to find another feathered friend.
    I remember where I was when I first heard about Kennedy. At school. The teacher announced it. We Canadians are very close to our US brothers and sisters and felt your pain acutely.
    Life just mixes the sweet with the bitter, doesn't it?

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  5. Since my cockatiel died 3 years ago, I cannot go through another heartbreak again

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  6. I have to ask: what did you name the new bird?

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